I help single Christian men and women attract healthy, holy, and happy relationships that are deeply fulfilling.
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Dating can be incredibly frustrating– learn a system to attract the right match, connect with them deeply, and discern if they are “the one”
My Story
By the time I was 25, I had already experienced two toxic relationships.
My first serious boyfriend and I dated for three years through high school and college. He was my best friend and companion—until he cheated on me and disappeared without even saying goodbye. Years later, I entered another relationship that ended in abuse. That breakup shattered what was left of my confidence.
Dating once left me feeling completely confused, overwhelmed, and discouraged. I often felt alone and frustrated because I truly wanted to follow God’s will — but I didn’t know what He was asking of me or how to move forward.
It led me to create what is now the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method —a framework I first used in my own life. When I began to discern the right way and follow where God was leading me, everything changed. I met my husband, and we were married 18 months later.
Today, we share a joyful, deeply fulfilling marriage rooted in friendship, faith, and emotional connection. We bring out the best in each other—spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
I believe this kind of relationship is possible for you, too.
By consciously choosing the right partner and following where God is leading you, you’re not just preparing for a wedding. You’re laying the foundation for a holy, healthy marriage and family life.
This isn’t just about meeting someone.
It’s about becoming prepared for the marriage God may be calling you toward.
It worked for me.
And if you’re ready, I believe it can work for you too.
Single in the City
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step – Lao Tzu
How to Find Your Soul’s Mate, One Step At a Time
You think about Mr. Right, right? Would you know him if you saw him? Does it seem impossible to find the right guy for you? Follow these three easy steps to get clear about the man you are looking for. The First Step: Start off by choosing the main qualities you would...
Stop Hustling
Ladies, I know we like to give. We are designed that way. We like to give of ourselves and be nurturing and take care of the men we are dating. In fact, some of us even try to "fix" the men that treat us poorly. We have thoughts like, “Maybe he just needs more love”...
Ending a Relationship is a New Beginning
A toxic relationship is defined by Psychology Today as “any relationship that is unfavorable to you or others.” Every experience in life has a profound way of teaching something, a toxic relationship, especially. It can feel like a storm, being shipwrecked alone on...
Toxic is Like Poison
We have heard the song "Toxic" by Britney Spears. This can lead us to think of a fun, pop, musical rhythm that makes you want to shake it on the dance floor. However, from my experience, "Toxic" can mean something much different. In my book entitled From Toxic to...
Soulmate?
We have often heard the term "soulmate." What is a soul mate, after all? I like to define a soul mate as someone who is a fit with your soul. Why do we have a soulmate? God has created and matched two beings together to help them fulfill God's plan. Sounds pretty...
