A toxic relationship is defined by Psychology Today as “any relationship that is unfavorable to you or others.”

Every experience in life has a profound way of teaching something, a toxic relationship, especially.

It can feel like a storm, being shipwrecked alone on the open sea, and struggling to survive after it dramatically disrupts our life. John Tesh said, “Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.”

 I believe this wholeheartedly.

Every experience in life has a profound way of teaching us something, a toxic relationship, especially. It can feel like a storm, being shipwrecked alone on the open sea, and struggling to survive after it dramatically disrupts your life. John Tesh said, “Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.”

 I believe this wholeheartedly.

What has the breakup taught you?

What new and exciting path has your toxic relationship cleared for you?What new direction has it guided you toward?

Girl, at this point, I am sure you know what you don’t want…

You don’t want another toxic relationship!

You don’t want to be minimized or reduced by a toxic man.

You don’t want to be hurt again after opening your heart.

You don’t want to feel like your voice has been diminished because the man you are dating does not want to hear that your voice. 

Knowing what you don’t want is a powerful part of the process for creating what you do want! It is part of the journey steering you toward the next port of your destination! In fact, because of your toxic relationship ending, you are now one step closer to discovering where you are supposed to be!

So, where are you supposed to be?

The next natural step is to start steering yourself towards finding a partner who is the right man for you, your soulmate. On the contrary, by choosing to remain stuck in the place you are right now means that you are not moving with the “flow of life.” In fact, you are moving against it. 

So, what does “the flow of life mean?”

Life is trying to direct you to a new and better place. Sometimes we refuse to be led by life. We are stubborn and self-willed and avoid listening to the wisdom of where life is trying to lead us.

By not moving accordingly with it, we cause a disturbance. This can look like a toxic relationship, a broken heart, or any other painful experience.

Basically, life is saying detour! Detour! Turn around! Go this way! But we are too blinded by our own desires that we don’t follow the signals. 

Now that your relationship is over, you can start anew.

Which direction are you going to go next?

Let me help you steer you in the right direction.

Contact me for a coaching consultation!