I help single Christian men and women attract healthy, holy, and happy relationships that are deeply fulfilling.
Dating can be incredibly frustrating– learn a system to attract the right match, connect with them deeply, and discern if they are “the one”
My Story
By the time I was 25, I had already experienced two toxic relationships.
My first serious boyfriend and I dated for three years through high school and college. He was my best friend and companion—until he cheated on me and disappeared without even saying goodbye. Years later, I entered another relationship that ended in abuse. That breakup shattered what was left of my confidence.
Dating once left me feeling completely confused, overwhelmed, and discouraged. I often felt alone and frustrated because I truly wanted to follow God’s will — but I didn’t know what He was asking of me or how to move forward.
It led me to create what is now the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method —a framework I first used in my own life. When I began to discern the right way and follow where God was leading me, everything changed. I met my husband, and we were married 18 months later.
Today, we share a joyful, deeply fulfilling marriage rooted in friendship, faith, and emotional connection. We bring out the best in each other—spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
I believe this kind of relationship is possible for you, too.
By consciously choosing the right partner and following where God is leading you, you’re not just preparing for a wedding. You’re laying the foundation for a holy, healthy marriage and family life.
This isn’t just about meeting someone.
It’s about becoming prepared for the marriage God may be calling you toward.
It worked for me.
And if you’re ready, I believe it can work for you too.
My Podcast Interview with Put Your Passion To Work
My Soul’s Mate
I remember preparing for our wedding day. I planned for hours. I also envisioned that the fairytale would end there. It was as simple as that. I was naive to the depth and breadth of what marriage consisted of. At the beginning of our marriage we went on our honeymoon...
A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words?
Living in downtown Chicago as a single twenty something female, I had lots of opportunity to meet men. The hair stylist curled my hair and gave me just the amount of volume I needed and i strolled out of the salon confidently. After all, I was going to do everything...
Here’s the Cure for your Dating Blues
Photo credit Mohd Aram
Meditation Challenge Day 2
As the second day of the meditation challenge, I discuss removing negative energy and emotions that keep you stuck. Being stuck can take many forms including remaining in the same negative dating patterns and not attracting the right man into your life. The more you...
Meditation Challenge Day 1
For the first day of the meditation challenge, I discuss meditating as a way to reconnect with ourselves in order to discover the true desires of our heart. Often times when you quiet your mind you become aware of thoughts, feelings, and ideas that may have been...











