I help single Christian men and women attract healthy, holy, and happy relationships that are deeply fulfilling.
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Dating can be incredibly frustrating– learn a system to attract the right match, connect with them deeply, and discern if they are “the one”
My Story
By the time I was 25, I had already experienced two toxic relationships.
My first serious boyfriend and I dated for three years through high school and college. He was my best friend and companion—until he cheated on me and disappeared without even saying goodbye. Years later, I entered another relationship that ended in abuse. That breakup shattered what was left of my confidence.
Dating once left me feeling completely confused, overwhelmed, and discouraged. I often felt alone and frustrated because I truly wanted to follow God’s will — but I didn’t know what He was asking of me or how to move forward.
It led me to create what is now the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method —a framework I first used in my own life. When I began to discern the right way and follow where God was leading me, everything changed. I met my husband, and we were married 18 months later.
Today, we share a joyful, deeply fulfilling marriage rooted in friendship, faith, and emotional connection. We bring out the best in each other—spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
I believe this kind of relationship is possible for you, too.
By consciously choosing the right partner and following where God is leading you, you’re not just preparing for a wedding. You’re laying the foundation for a holy, healthy marriage and family life.
This isn’t just about meeting someone.
It’s about becoming prepared for the marriage God may be calling you toward.
It worked for me.
And if you’re ready, I believe it can work for you too.
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