“What you are putting out there is incredibly valuable”

–Monsignor Kevin Sullivan/CEO of Catholic Charities

Host of the Just Love Podcast on Sirius XM’s the Catholic Channel

Are you serious about finding love? The Intentional Dating and Discernment Package will create a roadmap to attracting and building a healthy and fulfilling relationship

A Soul-filled Relationship can happen when you can:

Clarify the qualities that you are looking for in a partner and follow a roadmap for how to attract him/her
Craft questions to help you evaluate the right match
Discern if the one you are dating is the right match for a healthy and happy marriage
Evaluate boundaries to help you keep you feeling safe while leaning into vulnerability
Choose partners that encourage you to become your best and truest self
Learn methods of communicating that inspire emotional intimacy
Create more meaningful and less superficial connections
Design a healthy partnership according to your deepest needs

If you are ready to attract the “one” and develop a deep soul-filled connection then click the link to set up a call with me.

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Empower yourself to make 2025 the year for love and transform your dating life from single to soulmate and attract the love you are so worthy of.

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FAQs

Is the Intentional Dating Package the only package you offer?

No. I offer a coaching package that focuses on polarity – feminine/masculine to help you build a healthy foundation for a relationship.

How many sessions does each package offer?

It depends on the package you choose.

How do the sessions work?

We meet via zoom to work through the workbook together. In addition to the workbook, I also individualize the coaching package to your specific needs, including creating resources. During the sessions I support you through any challenges or resistance that come up for you.

Am I guaranteed to meet my match?

No, there is no quick fix to meet your perfect match. But, I believe as you continue to practice intentional dating you will attract the right person to you.

Can you support me with the relationship I am in?

The coaching program is meant to help you gain confidence so that you can make the best decisions for your relationship though my discernment process.

Is it individual or group coaching?

Individual or group coaching is available.

The Intentional Dating and Discernment Package will include:

A soul-filled and healthy relationship can happen when you follow this process:

Part I: Intentional Dating

Streamline the dating process and empower yourself to make the right decisions for your relationships regarding what you need in a partner emotionally and mentally.

Part II: Awaken Your Feminine Side/Masculine Side

Craft your communication to allow your femininity/masculinity to become magnetic.

Part III: Be Your Authentic Self, Express Your Voice, and Lean Into Vulnerability

Let your true self shine.

Pillar IV: Discern

Inspired by Ignatius Spirituality, discern if they are the right fit for you.

Pillar V: Personalized Dating

Apply what you’ve learned through coaching and meet other singles like you through in-person speed dating events and personalized matchmaking.

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“Monica’s work is important in helping young adults navigate the dating world. Using the principles and tools of coaching, she is helping to form men and women in an important aspect of the remote preparation of marriage, which is often lacking in our culture today. Her approach helps Catholic singles to date with the intention of finding a suitable spouse, giving her work an appropriate focus (rather than helping singles date just for the sake of casual dating)”

Fr. Paul Marich, O.P. Pastor, St. Patrick Church

I started Monica’s program in hopes to help me clear my mindset of toxic relationship I was in. Monica was a great listener and gave me tips and tools to improve my mindset and empower myself. I am now engaged to be married!

Melissa, Retail Manager

Monica’s coaching helped me prioritize the values I was looking for in a man and taught me a process in which to find him. I am now happily married!

Dominique, Educational Assistant

I had a fair amount of dating experience before I started working with Monica, but I was still blind to some of my unhealthy thinking habits and conversational weaknesses. Monica’s exercises helped me overcome what had caused me to stumble with several other women, and I successfully started a strong relationship by the end of the 12-week program that lead to an engagement, marriage, and family life!

Aaron, Logistics Coordinator

I used to struggle with my self confidence with women. After applying the exercises, I am signifcantly more confident and can interact with women with a self assurance and composure that has lead to an amazing relationship!

Patrick, Prosecuting Attorney

I just finished Monica’s wonderful program, and I highly recommend it for anyone who feels called to the vocation of marriage, especially those who have waited for this vocation longer than he or she would have wanted. Monica has given me tools, concepts, and insights that I will continue to apply and use in my dating life. Monica has been such a wise, insightful, supportive, and encouraging presence in my life – it has been such a gift to have a great friend walk beside me as I navigate the dating world. And I am happy to announce that after applying her framework, I am now in a happy and fulfilling marriage!

Katie, Nurse

I met the most wonderful man at the Speed Dating Event that Monica hosted. I feel like the Holy Spirit guided me to attend because I value faith filled relationships and it was a great way to meet other Catholic singles. It was a relaxed, personal and fun atmosphere! I am now engaged to be married with Christ at the center of our lives and relationship. Monica has also coached me on Intentional Dating and Feminine Energy which I have implemented within my relationship. Now, Thomas and I have been married one year!

Cristal, Hospital Coordinator

Through her provided workbooks and meditations I have moved from a place of feeling stuck and spiritually imprisoned to a greater sense of the gifts God has in store for me… Her partnership, presence and feedback invite you to open your heart as you are able and move you onward.

Working with Monica I was able to break down the steps of intentional dating into manageable pieces. I tentatively navigated myself through numerous challenges from my past and her tools assisted me with further healing as I looked ahead at my future toward a loving relationship.

Colleen, Writer

Monica’s program helped me identify the mistakes that I made in my past relationship and find healing so that I could open my heart to receive love again! Her guided discernment program helped empower me to go forward with a wonderful man. Because of Monica’s program, I am now married and I am head over heels in love!

Dana, Retail Manager

After coaching with Monica, I realized that I needed more affirmations for myself and to believe in the positive feminine energy that I didn’t know I had. She guided me in the right direction to fully open myself up to love and to be treated with respect. I am now engaged a wonderful man who is giving and caring! Thank you so much Monica!

M. O’Neil, Special Education Teacher

Before coaching I struggled with self confidence and value. After working with Monica I am more trusting of God’s will for my life and following the path He has laid out for me. I met a wonderful man on Catholic Match once I got out of my own way and let God take care of it. We are now married!

Victoria, Social Worker

Before working with Monica, I struggled with making meaningful connections on dates. But after working with Monica, I am better able to express who I am as a man, and was able to start a relationship with a wonderful woman and we are now married!

Matt, Nurse

Before working with Monica I struggled with discerning whether I truly felt called to marriage or even wanted this in my life. After working with Monica on the Ignatian Program inspired by Ignatius Spirituality applied to Dating, I felt challenged to confront my perception on dating and marriage. It helped me grow spiritually in better communion with the Holy Spirit and deepen my prayer life and view of relationships. Although Ignatian Spirituality can be challenging, I highly recommend this program and Monica’s guidance for anyone who is discerning dating or marriage or just hitting a plateau in dating in general. I have came to the realization that I am meant to be married, and I am now engaged to be married! Monica’s energy and authenticity is a precious bonus. She is truly called to this ministry and is a blessing to everyone who has the privilege to work with her!

Mechelle, MD

It seemed like it would never come to pass but God answered my prayers. Although I am Licensed Professional Counselor, I struggled to meet men who shared values similar to mine. I was on the verge of giving up but Monica encouraged me to keep trying, trying different methods of meeting new men.Through Monica’s program, I worked on activating my feminine more and prioritizing my deepest needs in a relationship. God has a real sense of humor when he sent me an Eagle fan , when I am a die hard Cowboy fan! Despite his choice in football teams, he has all of the priorities that I am looking for in a relationship and I have never been happier!

Rae, Therapist

Monica was one of the presenters for the NCSC’s Relationship Ready online program in February 2022, and afterward had a virtual happy hour that evening. Valérie and I met there and had a very pleasant conversation. While we were separated by about 1000 miles between Indiana and Florida, it was clear we had a good connection and shared the same values and goals. After emailing and video chatting for several months, I suggested and she agreed to my visiting her in person that June. To make a long story short, we were engaged in May 2023, I moved to Florida in July, and we were married April 11. Thank you for your ministry, Monica!

Greg, Scientist

Monica helped me a ton on my journey! I came to Monica after years of dating the wrong women, including a broken engagement. After reviewing my dating patterns, Monica came up with a strategy for me to choose women who were more aligned to what I needed. We are married now!

Anthony, Federal Investigator

I joined Monica’s coaching program when I was stuck in a relationship with a man who was not good for me, and I couldn’t seem to break free. During that difficult time, she supported me constantly — always just a message away — and I leaned on her guidance for clarity and strength.

As I began working through her workbooks and discovering the kind of man I truly needed and desired, Monica gave me something I never thought I’d have: HOPE that marriage could be for me. I had always struggled to believe I was worthy of being chosen, but she helped me recognize my own beauty, goodness, and desire-worthiness.

I started attending her online speed dating events, matchmaking opportunities, and weekly women’s support group — and I experienced so much growth! Her personal coaching was especially impactful because she offered encouragement, emotional support, and practical guidance every step of the way.

Then, when I met a wonderful man in January, her program helped me see the signs that he was truly pursuing me with intention. Monica teaches what it looks like when a good man is genuinely interested — and he showed up in exactly those ways! Monica helped me discern if he was the right one for me. Her coaching helped me remain peaceful, trusting in God’s will, and confident as the relationship developed.

Today, that man is my fiancé. We got engaged in July and are getting married on St. Valentine’s Day! He is everything I prayed for — meeting the desires and needs Monica helped me understand and embrace. I am beyond grateful for her patience, love, and wisdom throughout my healing and into my engagement

Michelle, Business Owner

“I cannot speak too highly of the beautiful work Monica is doing through her coaching program! She is thoughtful, organized, deeply spiritual, and totally given to helping her clients grow where they long to the most! Over the years, I have struggled tremendously with relationships, but taking the time to work alongside Monica over a period of a couple months helped gain me the spiritual strength and confidence in God that I needed to heal. During our time together, I was able to begin the process of building a firm foundation with the man I hope to marry next year, if God wills it! Thanks so much, Monica!”

Mary H., Teacher

“Monica was incredibly supportive and inspirational as I worked on myself and my dating strategy and skills over the course of 8 months. Before working with Monica, I struggled with how to interact on dates, and how to be vulnerable in a relationship. As a woman in her 30s who always focused on education and career, but with the strong desire for marriage and family, I didn’t know how to stop trying to take the lead and how to enable the men I was dating to lean into their masculinity. Through her one-on-one sessions and course materials, Monica helped me see patterns in my dating choices and interactions that weren’t serving me, and helped me understand how to be more open in my communication about my needs, how to be calm before and during dates, and how to have a warm and receptive attitude that would attract masculine men. Monica helped me have faith and trust that God was guiding me on my dating journey, and that I would find someone who shared my Catholic values. After Monica helped me with leaning into my femininity, I became more calm and intuitive while dating, and I have met a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. Thank you so much, Monica!”