I help single Christian men and women attract healthy, holy, and happy relationships that are deeply fulfilling.
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Dating can be incredibly frustrating– learn a system to attract the right match, connect with them deeply, and discern if they are “the one”
My Story
By the time I was 25, I had already experienced two toxic relationships.
My first serious boyfriend and I dated for three years through high school and college. He was my best friend and companion—until he cheated on me and disappeared without even saying goodbye. Years later, I entered another relationship that ended in abuse. That breakup shattered what was left of my confidence.
Over the next seven years, I kept finding myself in the same painful patterns. A string of bad dates followed—men who stood me up, lied, led me on, ghosted me, or broke my heart. I kept asking myself: Where are all the good men? But deep down, I knew the real question was: Why am I choosing the wrong ones?
That question changed everything.
It led me to create what is now the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method —a framework I first used in my own life. When I began to heal, shift my patterns, and invite God into my dating life in a new way, everything changed. I met my husband, and we were married 18 months later.
Today, we share a joyful, deeply fulfilling marriage rooted in friendship, faith, and emotional connection. We bring out the best in each other—spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
I believe this kind of relationship is possible for you, too.
By consciously choosing the right partner—and healing the patterns that keep you stuck—you’re not just preparing for a wedding. You’re laying the foundation for a holy, healthy marriage and family life.
My Intentional Dating & Discernment Package combines coaching and matchmaking so you’re not just learning principles — you’re actually applying them in real-life dating.
We work through the pillars of intentional dating together, and then I help you put them into practice through guided matches, reflection, and discernment. This allows you to grow, heal, and date with clarity and confidence — not guesswork — while keeping Christ at the center of the process.
This isn’t just about meeting someone.
It’s about becoming prepared for the marriage God may be calling you toward.
It worked for me.
And if you’re ready, I believe it can work for you too.
Soul to Soul Coaching is rooted in the holistic belief that our bodies, spirits, and minds are all integral to forming deeply healthy and fulfilling relationships.
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